Most people have a pre-conceived notion of what the military looks like. They watch movies and TV shows and presume to know what an average day is like. A career in the military can be vastly different for many people. For some, they choose to live the life that appears on tv, although even that is dramatized. Then there are those who live a seemingly “normal life”.
The military is a massive organization. It needs people from all different backgrounds to operate, including people in the medical field, finance, supply chain, science, engineering, construction, and the list goes on. They are looking for the best and brightest to build the greatest military in the world. The military does more than fight. They run humanitarian missions, build and engineer structures, act as peacekeepers, train allies to keep peace in other areas of the world, and even protect our own citizens here in the United States.
It was twelve years ago that I sat down in a recruiting office and made the decision to sign on the dotted line and commit my life to the United States military. It sounds scary but it has been the best decision of my life as well as my family’s life. For most people that scenario takes place in high school but mine was as a college graduate, who was already in a great career, along with my wife who was a full time RN.
I just could never shake the feeling that I had to serve. With great-grandparents who came from Italy during WWI to join the US military and grandparents who fought in WWII, I felt that with everything this country has given us I had to serve or I would regret it forever. My wife and I took a leap of faith when we left our comfortable world and we have never looked back.
So as a homeschooling parent, what would I tell my own children?
- Research online. Each service has a comprehensive website that will typically contain most of the information that you are looking for. Each service has something different to offer so research and self-reflection are key. Your child needs to think about what they want out of their time in the military and what their interests are. It will at least provide you with the basics.
- Speak with someone that is serving or that has served. See what they have to say about their time and their experiences. Get the information directly from the horse’s mouth. I promise you that if you approach a veteran or active duty member with your high school aged child, they will be more than happy to speak with them.
- Make an appointment with a recruiter. Yes, the dreaded recruiter. Remember, you are only going there to ask questions and gather more information. It’s not like the movies, they are not going to trick you into signing up and shipping your child off that same day. So, go and ask lots of questions but go there armed with information and an agenda. Don’t have your son or daughter arrive with no idea about what interests them or what is available in that particular service. Remember, knowledge is potential power. It is only as good as the plan that you have for it. So, have a plan.
The morals and values that exist in the homeschooling community are a great asset to all the services and the experiences and opportunities that will be provided to them will last a lifetime. If you have any questions please feel free to reach out.